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28 Mar

Does size matter or is it the motion of the ocean that results in great sex?

Does size matter or is it the motion of the ocean that results in great sex?

Many people confuse a person's penis size with their ability to perform in bed. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Here's how to have that difficult conversation with extended family about your divorce

Here's how to have that difficult conversation with extended family about your divorce

Families may feel entitled to know why you decided to get a divorce.

27 Mar

GBVF a big problem in our society but let’s not neglect the boy child – positive masculinity experts

GBVF a big problem in our society but let’s not neglect the boy child – positive masculinity experts

There is a lot of unlearning that needs to be done for older men and grooming for young boys. They say boys should not be left behind and...

24 Mar

Why some women fake orgasms

Why some women fake orgasms

It's not just about not wanting to disappoint your partner when he's ready and raring to go. There are many reasons women fake it,...

23 Mar

Why sex gets better as you get older

Why sex gets better as you get older

'Your clitoris keeps on growing even after other parts of your body are done.'

17 Mar

'Love is not a limited resource' - experts weigh in on finding love after the death of a spouse

'Love is not a limited resource' - experts weigh in on finding love after the death of a spouse

There can be no time allocated to how long a person can grieve after the loss of their spouse.

15 Mar

Are you or your partner less interested in sex than before? Don’t worry too much – here’s why

Are you or your partner less interested in sex than before? Don’t worry too much – here’s why

A low sexual drive is more common than you think. The good news is that it is possible to put the sizzle back in your sex life.

13 Mar

In a ‘vat en sit’ relationship? Here’s why having a cohabitation agreement is a money-savvy move

In a ‘vat en sit’ relationship? Here’s why having a cohabitation agreement is a money-savvy move

A vat en sit relationship without a cohabitation plan runs the risk of facing a number of financial snags including the joint management...

03 Mar

7 sex positions that can be safe for pregnant women to try

7 sex positions that can be safe for pregnant women to try

The bigger your baby bump gets, the more manoeuvring is required between you and your partner as you try to find the right sex positions...

22 Feb

6 important questions to ask before marriage from a divorcée

6 important questions to ask before marriage from a divorcée

Drum columnist Siwe Sibeko asked her divorced besties what are some of the hard things they wish they'd asked themselves in the process...

15 Feb

Hate Valentine’s Day? For this woman, even the colour red is a trigger as she recalls her heartbreak

Hate Valentine’s Day? For this woman, even the colour red is a trigger as she recalls her heartbreak

Love is sweet but sometimes it hurts, leaving us ashamed and afraid to open ourselves up to potential disappointment again. Here are 11...

14 Feb

‘Our marriage was not recognised as lawful in SA, where we would’ve been jailed as ANC members’

‘Our marriage was not recognised as lawful in SA, where we would’ve been jailed as ANC members’

During the struggle against apartheid, many sacrificed everything to fight against white oppression. But between the activism, military...

24 Feb

2023 is about love. Here are 23 affordable ways to say ‘I love you’ to your Galentine or Valentine

2023 is about love. Here are 23 affordable ways to say ‘I love you’ to your Galentine or Valentine

Valentine’s Day is no longer just for couples – we’re celebrating all types of love, including friendship. Here is how to make your...

14 Feb

Never had an orgasm? These are 3 ways you can get them

Never had an orgasm? These are 3 ways you can get them

Sex is pleasurable, but only if your partner can hit the right spots.

27 Sep 2021

Nervous about anal? Here are the ins and outs to know in order to prevent any tears or discomfort

Nervous about anal? Here are the ins and outs to know in order to prevent any tears or discomfort

Like the vagina, the anus has nerve endings that makes it just as pleasurable as vaginal sex. Here's how to do it right.

28 Jul 2022

Coping as a breadwinner and how to break the cycle so your kids and theirs won’t have to pay black tax

Coping as a breadwinner and how to break the cycle so your kids and theirs won’t have to pay black tax

You've scarcely survived the most stressful month of the year – January. And now that you've gotten paid, there is already an expectation...

26 Jan

‘I’ve been issued with a divorce summons. What do I do?’ – Aus Nthabi answers your legal questions

‘I’ve been issued with a divorce summons. What do I do?’ – Aus Nthabi answers your legal questions

Aus Nthabi explains the benefits of going into mediation.

23 Jan

Want to try rimming for the first time with your partner? Sexologist shares how to break the ice

Want to try rimming for the first time with your partner? Sexologist shares how to break the ice

Medical doctor and sexologist Dr Jireh Serfontein from mysexualhealth in Pretoria, explains to us what makes rim jobs interesting for some.

13 Jan

Is cutting off toxic people one of your New Year’s resolutions? Here’s how to do it

Is cutting off toxic people one of your New Year’s resolutions? Here’s how to do it

Toxic partners, family members, colleagues or neighbours – they all need to stay in 2022. Use this as a guide to help you sever those...

09 Jan