Sis Dolly | Drum

19 Mar

‘Mom’s sick. Brother won’t take his ARVs. Where can I get help?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

‘Mom’s sick. Brother won’t take his ARVs. Where can I get help?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

A reader who is the breadwinner at home feels she needs to quit her job to take care of her mom and younger brother who was born with HIV.

‘How do I tell my girlfriend she has bad breath?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘How do I tell my girlfriend she has bad breath?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

'We usually don't kiss while having sex,' this distraught reader tells Sis Dolly. 'Sometimes she insists but I can't stand her breath.'...

12 Mar

‘I regret introducing BFF to my male pal. How do I get over this?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

‘I regret introducing BFF to my male pal. How do I get over this?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

They're head over heels. Now she feels like she's lost two friends at the same time after introducing them to each other.

05 Mar

‘Why won’t my girlfriend divorce her husband?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘Why won’t my girlfriend divorce her husband?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

They have both been married before and he is now single. But she seems reluctant to divorce the husband from whom she'd said she was...

26 Feb

‘My friend’s husband flirts with me’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘My friend’s husband flirts with me’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

Your married friends trust you. Don’t do anything to jeopardise that. Telling her just might not be the ideal solution, warns Sis Dolly.

19 Feb

‘Do you think he’s cheating on me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘Do you think he’s cheating on me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

For now, they can't have sex because of a medical issue. She fears he may be cheating.

12 Feb

‘I’m not sure he’s my child. How can I bring up the subject?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

‘I’m not sure he’s my child. How can I bring up the subject?’ – Sis Dolly answers your questions

'I know babies can be early but I’m worried.'

05 Feb

‘She says my face turns into a snake. Is it just an excuse to dump me?’ – Sis Dolly answers questions

‘She says my face turns into a snake. Is it just an excuse to dump me?’ – Sis Dolly answers questions

Sis Dolly tells this man that it's time to cut his losses.

29 Jan

‘Why would my boyfriend not want me to meet the woman he got pregnant?’ – Sis Dolly answers questions

‘Why would my boyfriend not want me to meet the woman he got pregnant?’ – Sis Dolly answers questions

Sis Dolly is not holding back in her advice to a woman who says she wants to meet the now pregnant woman with whom her boyfriend had an...

22 Jan

‘Why don’t my colleagues like me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘Why don’t my colleagues like me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

She is quiet and likes to keep to herself at work. Her colleagues say she is difficult to work with.

15 Jan

‘How can I maker her trust me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘How can I maker her trust me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

He believes that he is the glue that has kept their relationship from falling apart. But she doesn't believe that he intends to marry her...

08 Jan

‘How can I get her to come back to me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘How can I get her to come back to me?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

This reader still believes things between him and the mom of his child can be patched up. He wants her back, and they sometimes hook up.

18 Dec 2022

‘He’s Mr Popular. Should I tell him how it makes me feel?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘He’s Mr Popular. Should I tell him how it makes me feel?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

She's been here before – dating a guy who's BFFs with everybody, women included. Last time this burnt her. She wants to know if she...

11 Dec 2022

‘Does he have a fear of commitment?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘Does he have a fear of commitment?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

Something bad might have happened in his past concerning him committing and then getting hurt, says Sis Dolly.

04 Dec 2022

‘How can I fix the breach between my daughter and I?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘How can I fix the breach between my daughter and I?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

They used to be extremely close and her daughter used to tell her everything that was going on in her life, but now this has changed.

27 Nov 2022

‘I’m so bored with this marriage. How do I tell her?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘I’m so bored with this marriage. How do I tell her?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

The spark is just . . . gone. The sex is boring, the conversation is boring. This reader wants to know what to do.

20 Nov 2022

‘My ex says she now has HIV. Should I take her back?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘My ex says she now has HIV. Should I take her back?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

'You are bound to feel a bit of guilt for leaving her after she had told you her status,' says Dolly. But the needs of child they share...

13 Nov 2022

‘Should I tell him about my secret sugar daddy?’ Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘Should I tell him about my secret sugar daddy?’ Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

'If he really loves you,' advises Sis Dolly, 'he should understand that this is in the past and now you can both put it behind you.'

06 Nov 2022

‘What’s the best way to leave her?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

‘What’s the best way to leave her?’ – Sis Dolly answers your burning questions

Sis Dolly recommends getting both families involved and individual therapy for a couple whose traditional marriage is no longer working out.

30 Oct 2022